Kindness is one of the Christian virtues we all know we should practice, but do we fully understand its impact? As Christians, we are called to reflect God’s love to the world, and kindness is one of the clearest ways to accomplish that. In a world often filled with conflict and division, kindness stands out as a powerful tool for healing, connection, and transformation. So, why is kindness important? Let’s dive into what the Bible says about kindness and why it’s an essential part of our faith.
1. Kindness Reflects God’s Love
The Bible teaches us that God is love (1 John 4:8), and kindness is one of the primary ways we can show His love to others.
The Holy Spirit produces character traits in us that are found in Jesus. As we grow in our faith, these characteristics of Jesus will be evident in our lives. We find them in Paul’s letter to the Galatians:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22.
In Ephesians 4:32, Paul encourages us to “be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.“
Kindness is rooted in forgiveness and compassion; mirroring God’s own kindness toward us.
Real-Life Application:
When we show kindness, we are not just being nice people; we are representing the heart of God to the world. Can you remember a time when someone showed kindness to you? Did it make you feel seen, loved, and valued?
That’s the power of kindness- it can change hearts and build bridges.
There are plenty of small ways to show kindness- a smile, a compliment, holding the door open for the person behind you, a call or text to check-in.
Jesus tells us that even the small things matter: “If anyone gives even a cup of cold water to these little ones…” Matthew 10:42. He blesses all acts of kindness, large or small.
2. Kindness Builds Strong Relationships
Kindness is foundational to healthy relationships, whether with family, friends, or even strangers.
Paul says to “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another.” Colossians 3:12.
Relationships built on kindness are often the strongest because they are rooted in mutual respect and care.
Real-Life Application:
In your relationships, whether at home or at work, kindness can make all the difference. It softens hearts and opens doors for deeper communication.
It can be as simple as a spoken ‘thank you’, listening with intention, leaving a positive note/text, speaking words of encouragement, showing respect, and spending quality time with them.
When we choose kindness, even in challenging circumstances, it can open doors for understanding and healing.
3. Kindness is a Testimony to the World
Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:16, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.“
Kindness is not only beneficial for those we are kind to; it’s also a powerful testimony to those around us. When we show kindness, especially in difficult situations, we reflect the light of Christ in a dark world.
Real-Life Application:
In your day-to-day interactions, whether with a difficult coworker or a neighbor who might not share your faith, your humble kindness can speak volumes. You never know how your actions might open someone’s heart to Christ.
Giving practical help, meeting needs, turning the other cheek, and responding to negativity with well-wishes shows kindness. Jesus asks us to pray for those who mistreat you (Luke 6:28) which blesses them and helps us release bitterness and resentment.
Jesus loves every person in the world, even when they despise and reject him. While He was on earth, He prayed for and forgave His enemies.
He wants us to do the same.
4. Kindness Brings Healing and Hope
Kindness has healing power. Proverbs 12:25 tells us, “Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.“
In times of stress, grief, or heartache, a simple act of kindness can lift someone’s spirit and bring hope into their lives.
Real-Life Application:
Is someone in your life struggling? It could be a family member, friend, or even a stranger who needs a kind word, a meal, practical help or a listening ear. Don’t underestimate how much these small acts could encourage them on their journey of healing.
5. Kindness Reflects Our Christian Calling
As followers of Christ, we are called to live differently than the world. 1 Peter 2:9 says we are “a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.”
Our ability to show kindness, even when it’s difficult, reflects our commitment to live as Christ’s representatives. Jesus showed the ultimate kindness towards us when we did nothing to deserve it.
One simple act of kindness could completely change someone’s perspective and bring hope to someone who feels hopeless.
Real-Life Application:
When we choose kindness, especially in challenging situations, we are choosing to live out the character of Christ. Let’s be people who choose to reflect the kindness of Jesus to a sick and hurting world.
Conclusion
So, why is kindness important? It is an essential part of living out our faith as Christians. It reflects God’s love, builds stronger relationships, serves as a testimony to the world, and brings healing to those who need it most.
But kindness isn’t just a pleasant idea; it’s a command-
“What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8 ESV.
As we walk with God, let’s remember that kindness is not only an act—it’s a way of life that we can all share with the world.
Final Thought:
Kindness may seem a small simple thing, but in the eyes of God, it shows a selfless and active concern for others. Let’s strive to embody kindness in all we do, knowing that it has the power to change lives, including our own.
Encouragement for the Week ahead: Be on the lookout for extra ways to show kindness to someone this week and act on that prompting!
Blessings!
AnnMarie
“Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about….”
All Scripture is taken from the New International Version unless specified otherwise.
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