Weddings are joyful celebrations of love, commitment, and the beginning of a new life together. Throughout the Bible, we see beautiful examples of weddings that not only mark special moments in people’s lives but also point to deeper spiritual truths. From the union of Adam and Eve to the Wedding at Cana, weddings in Scripture remind us of God’s design for marriage and His covenant love for His people. Let’s take a closer look at some of these special moments and what they teach us today.
The Origin of Marriage in the Bible
God filled the creation story with descriptions of all the “good” things He created. But in Genesis 2:18 we hear God say something is “not good.”
All was perfection except: “it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18.
God creates Eve and brings her to Adam and calls her his wife. “For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” Genesis 2:24.
It’s a simple first wedding, and possibly the smallest. (But it can boast the greatest venue and officiant ever!)
God established marriage at the very foundation of His world.
Bible Verses about Weddings
We can peek into a few customs of weddings in the Bible in a variety of verses.
•A dowry, or “bride-price” was customary– “No matter what dowry or gift you demand, I will gladly pay it—just give me the girl as my wife.” Genesis 34:12 (NLT)
•There were bridesmaids– Jesus tells a parable about ten virgin bridesmaids waiting for the bridegroom to arrive at the bride’s home. (Matthew 25: 1-13)
•There were groomsmen, a wedding feast, and lots of family– At Samson’s wedding, we see his mother and father, 30 groomsmen, and a customary feast. (Judges 14: 10-11)
•The bride and groom dressed in their splendid best: “As a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels…” Isaiah 61:10b
•Psalm 45 (titled “A Wedding Song”) describes a royal wedding. It’s details include “music of strings”, “the royal bride in gold”, and a “gown interwoven in gold.”
•The story of Jacob and Leah’s wedding also gives us a few unique insights. There is also deceit, deals, and a bride switch!
Weddings have changed over the years, but the themes of celebrating two lives intertwined, a celebration with family and friends, music and food remain!
Wedding in Cana
Jesus and his disciples attend this wedding and meet Jesus’ mother and brothers there. (Perhaps it was a family wedding?)
We read there was a “master of the banquet” in charge (the “wedding planner” of their day?) We learn that it was normal to serve the finer wine first, with a cheaper one served later.
Jesus performs His very first miracle here, and while He wanted it kept under wraps, it was a big deal at the time. (There were few choices for beverage in the day- either water or wine.)
I love the imagery of Jesus caring enough about the details in this wedding to make more wine and rescue the reception!
The Wedding Supper of the Lamb
We pick up the wedding thread again in the book of Revelation.
“Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.” Rev 19:7)
“Then the angel said to me, ‘Write: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!’” Rev 19:9.
This wedding imagery here expresses the relationship between God and His people. The bridegroom is our perfect Lamb, Jesus Christ, and His bride is the church; all who trust in His gift of salvation.
“I saw the Holy City, the New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride, beautifully dressed for her husband.” Rev 21:2.
This wedding scene shows us a processional that ushers in a new kingdom of God.
The bride is the holy city of Jerusalem, the Lord’s people, His church, prepared and beautifully dressed. It marks the start of our secure, eternal life with our Bridegroom at His second coming.
Jesus Christ, the Bridegroom
We see the thread of weddings, marriage, and being united with Jesus, our bridegroom, from Genesis to Revelation.
John the Baptist alluded to Jesus as the bridegroom in his testimony about Him and their relationship.
“The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice… He must become greater; I must become less.” John 3:29-30.
In another passage, Jesus’ disciples were criticized for not fasting.
Jesus replies with a question in which He calls Himself the bridegroom: “How can the guests of the bridegroom mourn while he is with them? The time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them; then they will fast.” (Matthew 9:15.
Jesus left Heaven and came to Earth as our bridegroom to wed His bride, the Church. Two become one- Jesus unites with us through His sacrifice.
God and Marriage
God uses the analogy of marriage to describe His relationship with us. The bride and bridegroom give us a picture of a deep love relationship, entered willingly and with joyful expectancy.
This is the same relationship God has with you in Jesus. “As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you.” Isaiah 62:5.
We hear the words “till death do us part” at weddings. They are a sign of commitment for the bride and groom to value each day together.
Our bridegroom, Jesus, pledges us a love that death cannot separate.He loves us in and through our messy lives, through death, and into eternal glory.
Nothing can part us! Jesus came from heaven to seek His bride. He bought her (paid the bride-price!) by sacrificing His own life.
The greatest love story ever told is Christ’s love for you and me!
Blessings!
AnnMarie
Related Post ~There are beautiful allegories of marriage found in Song of Songs: Song of Songs- A Love Story.
All Scripture is taken from the NIV version unless specified otherwise.
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This was beautiful!
Prayers for you and your family this week!
Thanks Cindy! It probably was a bit indulgent on my part, but it was fun to write 🙂 Thanks for the prayers, we are excited!